Experiences thus far…
After a month of daily posts, I thought I could share (anonymously) some anecdotes of the manliness adventures so far, that some of you guys have very generously shared with me.
One university student took the key (and spare) of his bedroom to his mentor. When his mentor asked him what the idea was, he replied that he’d been thinking about how to fight more effectively with his struggles in porn and wanking. He figured living with his parents and siblings as he did, if he couldn’t lock the door to his bedroom, then he’d be less inclined to mess around when the temptations came up.
Another guy who graduated a few months ago and still lives with his parents sent a really close friend of his 27k and left himself 1k on mpesa and a nominal amount in his bank account. Why? He wastes a lot of his money on alcohol, weed and impulse buying. He figured having to ask for his own money from a friend will help him sober up in his use of money, especially if since this friend has to “approve” the expense.
Another campusarian went through all the contacts of his phone and forwarded Part 1 of the series to all his male friends. In the accompanying Whatsapp message, he explained briefly what they were about. 388 guys replied asking to sign up! And this has become his daily routine: forwarding the Guide to 388 buddies of his.
One young professional admitted he wastes his morning hours during this lockdown mainly because he just doesn’t get out of bed on time. So he called up a close friend and asked the friend to be calling him up at his waking up time. They’ve been at it for a week now.
Another young professional has teamed up with a close friend of his. Every two weeks they make targets for body, mind and soul and hold each other accountable.
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